Meet a few tips in the workplace

Meet a few “tips” in the workplace

Interpersonal relationships are mostly so complicated that it is not advisable to talk nonsense if you don’t know the inside story.
There is a kind of person in the society who is very good at helping the situation, making other people’s right and wrong compelling, and exaggerating each other and saying that there are not many tragedies in the world.
  The taboos of speaking: There are no perfect people in the world, and casually talking about other people’s weaknesses or revealing the privacy of others will not only hinder the reputation of others, but also enough to show that you are mean.
If you pretend to preach the one-sided words you have heard, you will reverse the right and wrong, confuse the black and white, and you wo n’t be able to take it back.
  Interpersonal relationships are mostly so complicated that it is not advisable to talk nonsense if you don’t know the inside story.
There is a kind of person in the society who is very good at helping the situation, making other people’s right and wrong compelling, and exaggerating each other and saying that there are not many tragedies in the world.
When talking about others, don’t criticize others behind one-sided observations unless it is a good criticism.
  Not many things in daily life are worth our friendship to argue and win.
But you do it this way, as if your spirit and time are worthless, not to mention the damage to your relationship.
Except that they can be modest about each other, without any prejudice, and special discussions on a certain issue, all disputes should be avoided. Even if this is an academic dispute, it is not necessary to think that such debate is to carry forward the spirit of culture.
  People do wrong, or do something bad. As long as he tells you automatically, he may still confess his mistakes frankly. If you point it out, then he must have various reasons to justify his mistakes.
Therefore, it is impossible to absolutely not criticize others. What we want to study is how to criticize.
  It is unwise to argue with people when talking about yourself.
One of the worst things is to brag about yourself in front of others, to take pride in yourself and despise everything, to ignore the opinions of others, and to brag about yourself. Those who are self-cultivators will not talk about themselves casually, let alone boast.
Not to mention bragging yourself, instead of bragging, you should show humility, maybe you think you are great, but others do not necessarily agree, hold yourself, never hold too high.
A boastful word is a seed of evil, which grows from your mouth in the hearts of others, and grows offensive buds.
  Do not deliberately make things difficult for people, and eloquence must behave correctly and flexibly.
  After listening to the other party’s speech, I found that one of them disagreed, and immediately raised an objection, and the other party immediately thought that their opinions had been rejected, which is of course a serious matter.
The reason you are doing this is to ease the air of conversation.
  Don’t make people think that you have wiped everything out of him, and that you don’t recognize his benefits at all, so that the conversation can proceed smoothly.
On the contrary, this is to make others talk to you and consider it worthwhile to consider. There is no falsehood or bragging.
  Don’t repeat the same topic all the time, don’t complain and complain about it everywhere. Complaining and complaining is not a good way to win sympathy. The basic attitude of being a person should also be like this.
  Stance of speaking Posture is an external manifestation of your inner state. It depends entirely on your own emotions, feelings, and interests. A gesture from your heart is not as good as the one thousand rules indicate.
The more the truth is revealed, the more natural the movements and gestures.
Sometimes because of the happy mood, I waved my hands in the air, sometimes because of the sadness, I could n’t help but clenched my fist and leaned against my chest tightly; when I was angry, I could n’t help but punch my fist.Action and performance posture are based on natural and flexible elements.
  When a person expresses his opinion, it is indeed worth paying attention to the problem of hand placement.
The following principles should be noted: 1.
Do not repeat postures. No matter which posture is repeated, it will always be tedious; 2.
When making gestures, don’t just start from the elbow, this will make people feel that your gestures are unnatural; 3.
Don’t end the pose too quickly.
For example, when you reach out and point your finger forward, this gesture is to help you speak, then you must not retract your hand immediately, it is best to wait until you have finished speaking a word before retracting that arm.
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If you want to maintain the naturalness of your posture, you must practice it. This kind of practice should be painstaking. Maybe you feel a little reluctant when you practice, but after many days, you can gradually become natural.
  5.
You have to be careful not to let your movements or postures reduce the listener’s attention to your speech; many people’s movements are overdone, causing the audience to pay more attention to his movements.
  Chief Career Advisor Mr. Guo Ce has a friendly reminder: There are often meetings in the workplace.
Only by paying attention to reality and art can the best effect of the meeting be achieved.
Mastering some meeting tips will be of great benefit in meeting and communicating with each other.Eloquence, action, and personal material are all thought and researched. If you think about it, no matter how you meet, you can be natural, generous, and not afraid.

Talk freely and decently, reflecting the demeanor of a professional.

  William James, a famous American psychologist, wrote the following paragraph: “The action seems to follow the sensation, but in fact the action and the sensation occur at the same time, so we directly use the will to align the action, which is indirectCorrected the feeling.

For example, we have lost happiness, and the only way to recover is to sit up happily and take the initiative to speak. Happiness seems to have been with us.

If this method still does not work, then there is no other way.

So when we feel brave, we really become very brave.

Using our entire will to achieve our goal is the best way to replace fear with your bravery.

However, you must first prepare for all actions, otherwise it will still be difficult to perform.

If you want to say something, after you think it over, you should immediately go out and take a deep breath for half a minute, because taking more oxygen can increase too much courage.

If you breathe in, you can support yourself.