Soul derailment vs. physical derailment
★ 1. The partner has sexual relations with others, and therefore has no feelings. It is purely a physical relationship.
★ 2, the partner falls in love with a person, but retains his loyalty to you physically, without having sex with him or her.
A is more concerned about physical derailment, preferring to accept spiritual derailment. “Falling in love is easier to forgive.
Every day we live, we meet a lot of attractive people; and people generally appreciate beautiful and beautiful people, so physical attraction and spiritual derailment are okay.
However, there must be no physical deception, even without love!
If I knew he was derailed on the flesh, he would die terribly!
“-Isheli singer” Spiritual derailment can happen to everyone anytime, anywhere.
Can you guarantee that your wife will never appreciate or love the opposite sex except you?
Do you dare to guarantee that in your own heart, besides your wife, you will never appreciate and love the opposite sex?
I believe that both men and women will be attracted by more than one opposite sex, and you can only marry one person in the end.
“-Ningping University teachers” It is difficult to accept.
But if it is a slight mental derailment, it is acceptable.
In fact, many times we see a very serious opposite sex, it is difficult to prevent ourselves from being derailed. This kind of derailment is called a slight spiritual derailment.
It is hard for me to imagine the physical derailment.
“-Pin Guan Singer” “It is not necessary and impossible for a husband and wife to demand 100% love.”
As long as my wife loves me 70% or 80%, I think it will be fine.
For the same reason, I can only use her 70% or 80% to love her.
If her emotional life is blank except for me, then I may despise her a bit, at least, I think she is not rich enough.
-Edited by Gu Xin Publishing House “These are all dead, but how to die . if you really have to choose, you can’t bear physical derailment.”
Because for me, there will be SEX. If she gives up her body, she will give up her heart.
-He Rundong Singer B is more concerned about spiritual derailment, preferring to accept physical derailment. “Spiritual derailment is more difficult to accept. If I love her very much, she no longer loves me, and I will be very unbearable.
Physical derailment can also be forgiven.
-Guangliang singer “What’s the point of keeping people away?”
I think spiritual derailment is more terrible than physical derailment.
I don’t want to live with a body and maintain a marriage form that is a mere expression.
“-Zhou Yuan IT practitioners” I know that he has the experience of playing in the field.
He starts a company and often talks with people. Now, how can I ask customers not to be a lady?
Others tell you not to call, how can you be so high?
This business cannot be done.
So as long as he is unemotional, I will not interfere with him.
“-Liu Mei company staff” I have a girlfriend, my husband is very profitable, but always home.
She went out to dance, knowing to meet other men, and had a one-night stand.
She didn’t care about it. He told us a few good friends, and she didn’t feel guilty about her husband, because she still loved her husband, and she was just sex with that person.
She made a clear distinction between sex and love.
Therefore, she does not mind the physical derailment of her husband, as long as she can be sure that her husband loves her most.
“-Wang Ling Freelancer” Men have to change their hearts, and 800 old cows will not be able to pull back. It is not a writer who said that if there are a few things in the world that are lost, they will never return.Time, falling hair, cut organs . and one more lover.If it ‘s just physical derailment, it may be impulse or confusion, and there is room for salvation.
“Ma Ma company staff” I told my wife that I was working outside, and there were so many temptations, and sometimes I was really afraid that I couldn’t catch myself.
If I did something wrong, I hope she can pull me, forgive me once, and don’t let this family get away easily.
In exchange, I can forgive her again.
-There is a third answer to this survey by He Jianzheng entrepreneurs, which is a very unexpected type of answer.
C Both derailment can accept “I want my wife to derail once, both mentally and physically.
Anyway, she is also a college graduate, and I don’t know why this is the case now.
Don’t read books, don’t study, and don’t take interest in new things.
Every day except cooking, shopping, watching TV, and bringing children, there is nothing else.
Seeing a third person on TV scolds others for being cheap.
If you want to talk to her about something, make a request in your emotional life, and if you are not sure, turn your face and say that your mind is alive and you want to be a “third party”.
It is closed and conservative, a pool of standing water.
I thought she would really derail once, maybe she could stir her water.
-Chen Chen’s cadres A, B and C survey results show some trends that have emerged in modern marriages. 1. Modern people are becoming more and more faithful to their true feelings and needs in marriage. They will not use too much.The clear rules and regulations, various unnecessary reasons tell themselves that this should not be that way, they only listen to the inner call, enjoy and pursue love.
As a result of breaking through all ideological shackles, marriage may become more complicated, less simple and pure, marriage management becomes more difficult, and the life expectancy of marriage may be shorter, but the quality of marriage is improving.
There is a saying that people today are willing to live together but not to get married easily. Extramarital affairs have become a common phenomenon, and the high divorce rate is a manifestation of modern people’s indifference to marriage.
In fact, just the opposite, modern people value marriage more.
They just want to respect themselves, their partners, and their marriage in a better way.
Second, modern people are beginning to learn to add a little flexibility to marriage.
If a system is to last forever, it must have a certain degree of flexibility.
There are actually three parties in the marriage: one is you, one is me, and one is “we” after the union.
The flexibility and freedom of marriage are based on the fact that two people are completely independent and both are willing to recognize each other’s complete independence. The beauty of marriage is in that symbiotic “us”.
If absolute possession and absolute purity are required in marriage, such an inelastic marriage is actually quite fragile.
Modern people will have to learn to overcome the too narrow possessiveness, to relinquish selfish jealousy in the name of love, to add a bit of tolerance in marriage, and to give marriage a space to breathe freely.
Marriage is a microcosm of life. If it is too comfortable and aligned, it is not enough to be a microcosm.
Acknowledge the fact that marriage may be derailed, but try not to derail it; accept the fact that feelings die, but try not to let it die.
Even though sadness is always inevitable, don’t feel so disappointed.
Forgiving each other is actually letting go of yourself, so that you can always have the hope of love and being loved.
If it is you, how do you choose?
Can’t you accept a certain behavior?
Which one can you accept relatively?